How to Create Your Perfect AI Girlfriend
Step-by-step guide to creating your ideal AI girlfriend. Learn how to customize appearance, personality, and preferences for the best AI companion experience.
Introduction
Creating a custom AI girlfriend allows you to design your ideal companion. This guide walks through the entire process on OurKinks, from appearance to personality.
Why Customization Matters
Generic AI characters provide generic experiences. Custom AI girlfriends:
Step 1: Choose Basic Appearance
Start with fundamental appearance settings:
Gender
OurKinks offers three options: Girl, Trans, or Guy. Select based on your preference.
Ethnicity
Choose from five options that affect appearance generation:
Age
Set age anywhere from 18 to 55. This affects both appearance and conversation style.
Step 2: Define Physical Features
Fine-tune specific physical attributes:
Body Type
Five options ranging from slim to curvy:
Hair
Choose style and color separately:
**Styles:** Long, Medium, Short, Pixie, Wavy, Curly
**Colors:** Blonde, Brunette, Black, Red, Other
Eye Color
Three options: Brown, Blue, Green
Breast Size (where applicable)
Four options: Small, Medium, Large, XL
Pro Tip: Use Randomize
Cant decide? Click "Randomize Appearance" to generate random combinations until you find one you like.
Step 3: Set Name and Identity
Display Name
Choose a name for your companion. This appears in chat and throughout the platform.
Username
A unique identifier for your companion. Auto-generated from the name but can be customized.
Step 4: Define Personality
This is crucial for conversation quality:
Personality Type
Choose from 12 distinct personality types:
Relationship Type
Define your relationship dynamic:
Occupation
Choose from 20 options that influence conversation topics and roleplay:
Student, Dancer, Model, Stripper, Maid, Cam Girl, Boss/CEO, Babysitter, Pornstar, Streamer, Bartender, Tech Engineer, Lifeguard, Cashier, Massage Therapist, Teacher, Nurse, Secretary, Yoga Instructor, Fitness Coach
Step 5: Select Interests and Kinks
Choose up to 3 kinks that define your companions interests:
Bondage, Spanking, Roleplay, Anal Play, Breeding, Edging, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Foot Fetish, BDSM, Toys, Group, Threesome, Oral Fixation, Sensory Play, Power Play, Public, Dirty Talk, Lingerie, Massage
These influence conversation topics and AI behavior.
Step 6: Choose Voice
Select how your companion sounds in voice messages:
Step 7: Review and Create
Before finalizing:
The system generates your AI girlfriend. This takes a few moments as it creates the profile image and sets up the personality.
After Creation
Once created, you can:
Tips for the Best Results
Be Specific
More customization creates more personalized experiences. Use all available options.
Match Personality to Preferences
Choose personality types that align with conversations you want. A "Shy" personality wont initiate bold content without prompting.
Consider Combinations
Some combinations work particularly well:
Experiment
You can create multiple AI companions. Try different combinations to find your favorites.
Conclusion
Creating your perfect AI girlfriend takes just a few minutes but dramatically improves the experience. Use the extensive customization options to build exactly the companion you want.
Start creating your AI girlfriend on OurKinks today.
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