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How to Create Your Perfect AI Girlfriend

Step-by-step guide to creating your ideal AI girlfriend. Learn how to customize appearance, personality, and preferences for the best AI companion experience.

January 9, 20267 min read
How to Create Your Perfect AI Girlfriend

Introduction

Creating a custom AI girlfriend allows you to design your ideal companion. This guide walks through the entire process on OurKinks, from appearance to personality.

Why Customization Matters

Generic AI characters provide generic experiences. Custom AI girlfriends:

  • Match your specific preferences
  • Feel more personal and engaging
  • Maintain consistent personality
  • Create stronger connections
  • Provide tailored conversations
  • Step 1: Choose Basic Appearance

    Start with fundamental appearance settings:

    Gender

    OurKinks offers three options: Girl, Trans, or Guy. Select based on your preference.

    Ethnicity

    Choose from five options that affect appearance generation:

  • Caucasian
  • Asian
  • Black
  • Latina
  • Indian
  • Age

    Set age anywhere from 18 to 55. This affects both appearance and conversation style.

    Step 2: Define Physical Features

    Fine-tune specific physical attributes:

    Body Type

    Five options ranging from slim to curvy:

  • Petite
  • Slim
  • Athletic
  • Curvy
  • Thick
  • Hair

    Choose style and color separately:

    **Styles:** Long, Medium, Short, Pixie, Wavy, Curly

    **Colors:** Blonde, Brunette, Black, Red, Other

    Eye Color

    Three options: Brown, Blue, Green

    Breast Size (where applicable)

    Four options: Small, Medium, Large, XL

    Pro Tip: Use Randomize

    Cant decide? Click "Randomize Appearance" to generate random combinations until you find one you like.

    Step 3: Set Name and Identity

    Display Name

    Choose a name for your companion. This appears in chat and throughout the platform.

    Username

    A unique identifier for your companion. Auto-generated from the name but can be customized.

    Step 4: Define Personality

    This is crucial for conversation quality:

    Personality Type

    Choose from 12 distinct personality types:

  • **Nympho:** Highly sexual, forward, uninhibited
  • **Lover:** Romantic, affectionate, devoted
  • **Submissive:** Yielding, eager to please
  • **Dominant:** Controlling, commanding, assertive
  • **Temptress:** Seductive, playful, teasing
  • **Innocent:** Naive, sweet, curious
  • **Caregiver:** Nurturing, supportive, maternal
  • **Experimenter:** Adventurous, curious, open-minded
  • **Mean:** Degrading, harsh, demanding
  • **Confidant:** Supportive, trustworthy, understanding
  • **Shy:** Reserved, bashful, timid
  • **Queen:** Regal, demanding, superior
  • Relationship Type

    Define your relationship dynamic:

  • Stranger
  • Girlfriend
  • Sex Friend
  • Schoolmate
  • Work Colleague
  • Wife
  • Mistress
  • Friend
  • Step Sister
  • Step Mom
  • Occupation

    Choose from 20 options that influence conversation topics and roleplay:

    Student, Dancer, Model, Stripper, Maid, Cam Girl, Boss/CEO, Babysitter, Pornstar, Streamer, Bartender, Tech Engineer, Lifeguard, Cashier, Massage Therapist, Teacher, Nurse, Secretary, Yoga Instructor, Fitness Coach

    Step 5: Select Interests and Kinks

    Choose up to 3 kinks that define your companions interests:

    Bondage, Spanking, Roleplay, Anal Play, Breeding, Edging, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Foot Fetish, BDSM, Toys, Group, Threesome, Oral Fixation, Sensory Play, Power Play, Public, Dirty Talk, Lingerie, Massage

    These influence conversation topics and AI behavior.

    Step 6: Choose Voice

    Select how your companion sounds in voice messages:

  • **Confident:** Self-assured, bold
  • **Cheerful:** Upbeat, happy
  • **Dominant:** Commanding, assertive
  • **Innocent:** Sweet, naive
  • **Sweet:** Gentle, kind
  • **Sultry:** Seductive, low
  • **Calm:** Relaxed, soothing
  • **Thoughtful:** Measured, intelligent
  • Step 7: Review and Create

    Before finalizing:

  • Review all selected options
  • Ensure everything matches your vision
  • Check name availability
  • Click Create
  • The system generates your AI girlfriend. This takes a few moments as it creates the profile image and sets up the personality.

    After Creation

    Once created, you can:

  • Start chatting immediately
  • Generate images in various poses
  • Create videos
  • Enable voice messages
  • Tips for the Best Results

    Be Specific

    More customization creates more personalized experiences. Use all available options.

    Match Personality to Preferences

    Choose personality types that align with conversations you want. A "Shy" personality wont initiate bold content without prompting.

    Consider Combinations

    Some combinations work particularly well:

  • Submissive + Maid + Eager to please
  • Dominant + Boss + Power play
  • Innocent + Student + Curious exploration
  • Experiment

    You can create multiple AI companions. Try different combinations to find your favorites.

    Conclusion

    Creating your perfect AI girlfriend takes just a few minutes but dramatically improves the experience. Use the extensive customization options to build exactly the companion you want.

    Start creating your AI girlfriend on OurKinks today.

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